Imam Ali - Peak of Eloquence (Nahjul Balagha) - 148. “One who does not realize his own value is condemned to utter failure. (Every kind of complex, superiority or inferiority is harmful to man). - The sin which makes you sad and repentant is more liked by Allah than the good deed which turns you arrogant. - 205. A greed…y man will always find himself in the shackles of humility”
This above quote is Naved Jafri’s one of the favorite. And I take the pleasure of starting my tribute with his favorite quote of Hazrat Imam Ali!
Today December 28th, birthday of Naved Jaaffery came on big day of 10th Moharram. We all know Naved may not be celebrating his birthday but then how could we keep our wishes away. Naved matters to us a great lot and so we pen down this tribute as part of his birthday celebrations. (We do plan to celebrate his birthday in fullest once the month of Moharram is over.)
From a very long time I have been thinking what is it that motivates
Naved Jafri to his humbleness. What is it that keeps his roots so firmly grounded as he never shows a sign of arrogance even though he has seen plenty of success. His show “Boogie Woogie” created waves and is part of India’s history as the first reality show. It has faced blockbuster success and yet we see Naved never feeling proud and responding in utter humility to each of his success. As I continued to get motivated and he kept inspiring me without even his knowledge, all of a sudden my questions were answered when I read the above quote.
It is Naved’s faith in God that keeps him so humble. It is his believe in the real world that never makes him act arrogant or get any type of complex. It is the fear of God that he treats one and all equal. His desire to remain a good human being makes him help many and yet not utter a single word about it ever. This is his true nature!
A lot of times, when we are
surrounded in company of strangers or acquaintances, the normal tendency is to avoid speaking of truth in case there maybe a clash of opinion. But Naved never fears a clash as he knows the one who speaks the truth pleases God. And pleasing God is keeping your books all straighten up for the real world that comes after this life. The necessity to place the truth in front of people requires a lots of guts and Naved is never short of guts. He has a knack of putting things in front of people in such a way that does not bring any conflict and yet explains technically and scientifically every meaning behind his motive.
Living in a secular country is often understood that all citizens must be having a secular mind but unfortunately due to dirty politics, many people believe the other way round. But gladly, Naved does not belong to that category. Here we see Naved who along with his childhood buddy Ravi never demarcates anyone based on religion or caste or creed. For them everyone is equal and must be treated equal at all times.
Naved believes in the goodness, and never is seen airing the bad fire. He doesn’t encourage any back biting nor believes anyone based on some silly stories. By observing him, I can tell that his character as a matter of fact reminds me of a Triple Filter Test story. I am more then delighted to share this Islamic story with you today:
During the golden Abbasid period, one of the scholars in Baghdad, the capital of Muslim caliphate at that time, was reputed to hold knowledge in high esteem.
One day an acquaintance met the great scholar and said, "Do you know what I just heard about your friend?"
"Hold on a minute," the scholar replied. "Before telling me anything I’d like you to pass a little test. It’s called the Triple Filter Test."
"Triple filter?"
"That’s right," the scholar continued. "Before you talk to me about my friend it might be a good idea to take a moment and filter what you’re going to say.
That’s why I call it the triple filter test.
The first filter is Truth. Have you made absolutely sure that what you are about to tell me is true?"
"No," the man said, "actually I just heard about it and.."
"All right," said the scholar. "So you don’t really know if it’s true or not.
Now let’s try the second filter, the filter of goodness. Is what you are about to tell me about my friend something good?"
"No, on the contrary…"
"So," the scholar continued, "you want to tell me something bad about him, but you’re not certain it’s true. You may still pass the test though, because there’s one filter left: the filter of usefulness.
Is what you want to tell me about my friend going to be useful to me?"
"No, not really."
"Well," concluded the scholar, "if what you want to tell me is neither true nor good nor even useful, why tell it to me at all?"
"O ye who believe! Let not some men among you laugh at others: It may be that the (latter) are better than the (former)" Hujurat 49.12
"And spy not on each other behind their backs" Hujurat 49.13 - Such is the believe of Naved Jafri!
“Men often become what they believe themselves to be. If I believe I cannot do something, it makes me incapable of doing it. But when I believe I can, then I acquire the ability to do it even if I didn’t have it in the beginning.” - Mahatma Gandhi
Believing in ones capabilities and trusting your instincts is must for our
growth. But these things can be done when you can believe in God Almighty. A stronger faith produces a stronger man. One life is all we have! Living it right is an art but not an impossible task. To reach our goal with shortcuts may take us to our destination but it often brings us back with a thud. Naved’s believe in God is rock solid and maybe that is the reason why the man is contended and peaceful. He knows that anyone can give up when things go wrong but to hold it together and have the trust especially when everyone else would understand that it would fell apart, shows his true strength. And maybe that is why God continues to shower his choicest blessings on him.
As I told in my last years tribute, Naved is the reason why this blog is here and
he is the reason for me getting hooked on to Boogie Woogie. It is his goodness that attracted me to pen down my thoughts as it greatly has inspired me in my life. I prefer to address him as an angel as men like him are impossible to find in this world - he is the complete package from God. I wish him many millions of healthy and wealthy years full of everything that makes him the happiest. I pray to God that Boogie Woogie be back as soon as possible and may we get to see him along with his angel partners every week.
“Dear Naved!! You’re thought about more often than you probably can guess, and thoughts of you just naturally bring smiles of happiness. Now, that it’s your birthday, may each and every warm thought, bring a wish for all the best in life, and all your favourite things.”
WE LOVE YOU VERY MUCH NAVED!
MANY HAPPY RETURNS OF YOUR WONDERFUL BIRTHDAY! AMEN!
Regards,
Admin!!
As many know 8th annual Indian Television Academy Awards (ITA) were scheduled this week, we proudly bring you the news that Sony Channel’s “Videocon Boogie Woogie” won 2 awards this year!!
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