Today, let’s talk about something different. Something that is not related with dance but before that let us talk a little about our everyday lives. How are we doing? We wake up in Morning and get busy with our routine work – routine work gets so hectic that we feel like a robot most of the times. Everything needs to be done within its time limit and if we snooze then we loose. The outside world is too harsh and we cannot take any risk by snoozing even for few seconds. The word “Success” is so much on our mind that it occupies us 24/7. We think being successful is being “RICH” and so the word success gets correlated with another word “Money”. We start to feel if we are successful (rich) then it will be a good show at the society or else not. And in this process we make our lives so much busier that we create lot of stress on ourselves. Our week days fly and our weekends we struggle and juggle a million projects together. We can’t help. It is a competitive world. We need to be on our toes so that we can have a secured future. We up bring our children with the same attitude as well. As a matter of fact, today’s children they have lot more pressure over their head then the grown up’s. They not only have to learn to be successful and rich but also have to live their parent’s dreams.
School bags get’s heavier by heavier day by day. Education, extra curricular activities, home work, relatives – where is the time for ourselves? What about time for somebody else? How about some charity? Even though a lot of times we feel at heart the willingness to help someone, where and how can we fit in our busy schedules? But then they say "where there is will, there is way".
“Charity” - What is that? I recently was reading some stuff on charity and in this process; I came across a definition that was beautifully put by a Yahoo member – according to him “Charity is opening your heart and giving a hand to someone in need. Charity doesn’t necessarily have to be something material. Sometimes just being there can have much greater value than money or worldly goods. Charity which comes from within the heart shows that you care and have compassion for the people around you. That in return is a good foundation for developing a role model which would be of a much greater benefit to the community”
My parents always said that we came into this world with a purpose. That purpose is not gaining money or being a millionaire but being human. A lot of us do have a capability to extend a helping hand to a less fortunate person. We just need to realize that from within. Helping is not necessarily only giving away money – we can share our knowledge, we sure can offer guidance, anything that is within our limit without burning ourselves is great. And if we are able to share a bit of our earnings in making someone’s life better then why not?
How many of us really emphasize on the children that they must do the good deeds leave alone donating your hard earned money or your valuable possession. But we recently spotted one such family who are beautifully up bringing their daughter with the right deeds, right manners and right attitude. The way they look at life is different from any families that we come across. They place the happiness of others prior to placing their own needs. The amount of charity that the family has got into is amazing. Their young girl has done so much of charity in this young age that I have not done in my entire life. Yes I am talking about Isha Dang and the awesome Dang Family. Isha won the title of Boogie Woogie Kids Championship 2008. She plans to give away the entire money that she won in charity. This awesome down to earth and modest family from Patiala has definitely taught us the real meaning of life. My Salute to the city of Patiala, and to the “Dang” family. They are perfect role models!
Right from the beginning till the finals, we came to know how this little wonder has won many prizes but always gave away the prize money for charity. This family is never tired of working towards the charity. It never occurred to her that the money that she won, she should be buying something that she can remember for a long time that it was possible due to her victory in the competitions. She participates in different events only with a soul motive of helping the needy. I remember in one of the episode when Isha talked about falling sick during one of the charity events and she had seven performances to give that day. She started to pray to get well soon so that she does not miss the opportunity to perform and help the group. What a noble thought!!
The manners, the behavior and every action that Isha and her family took during the Boogie Woogie days, talks about how human they are. We have lots to learn from them. They truly are not only INSPIRING but REAL HEROES in every sense. I guess this world is still a good place because there are people like the Dang family living here. God Bless “Dang” Family!!
And Isha – WE ARE VERY PROUD OF YOU!! KEEP IT UP!
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October 15th, 2008 at 10:01 am
is dunia main dang family jaise logo ki bahut bahut zarroorat hai.
sach to yeh hai ki wo log jo society main humanity, kindness, manners aur morals ko spread kar rahe hain wo ibadat ke kaabil hai.
jin gharon main is tareh ki positivity ki kami rehti hai wahan maine mental peace ko stake par lagte dekha hai aur barbaad hote dekha hai aur jab wo log tumhare bahut kareebi ho to us se hone wali takleef ka tum andaaza laga sakti ho
isma koi shak nahi ki dang family jaise log hamari society ke real heroes hai aur jahan isha jaise bachhe ho to wo din door nahi jab fir se ek jannat main jeene ki khwahish ki jaa sake.
October 15th, 2008 at 10:04 am
i agree with each and every word of u said.
you are awesome
October 15th, 2008 at 10:07 am
thanks so much shashiji for your contribution hereinabove.
i completely agree with you, about the definition and importance of compassion, of humanism as opposed to the pointless pursuit of success which is equated sadly only to wealth and material possessions in our present sad world.
Once again happy to know you, to know shashiji to know all of you here.
October 15th, 2008 at 10:07 am
i feel every single word u worte….I believe in charity and I do believe in parents teaching their kids to be charitable, kind and careing indiviuals…the youngs ones need to have these values instilled in them from a young age. I’m so proud of the “Dang” family… may god bless them always for always opening their hearts…and way to go young ISHA….you’er a wonderful child. Keep it up!!!!
PROUD PROUD PROUD OF YOU!!!
October 16th, 2008 at 3:10 pm
thank u so much for sharing ur parents’ view about humanity & about the ‘Dang family’…i’m really moved by the little girl ‘Isha’….may God bless her & her parents ,who imbibed so much good values in their daughter.
October 16th, 2008 at 3:31 pm
My salute to Isha and her family. I am so touched by what Isha has been doing. Donating so much money at this age, is just amazing. She really is an idol. I would personally love to meet her one day.
October 17th, 2008 at 10:30 am
ISHA sab say pehlay to iam really sorry q k jis tareef k qabil aap ho main utna acha likh nahi sakti q k meray pass RAFFu ji ki tarafh lafzon ka khazana nahi hai.
But mujhay aap k baray main jaan kar or parh k bahut acha laga. Aap sach main bahut tareef k qabil ho. Itni choti si umar main jis tarah say aap charity kar rahi ho us say hum sab ko bahut seekh milli.
Aap nay apni jeeti hui sari raqam charity main use ki aisa koi bhi nahi karta hoga. Aap nay sab say alag kaam kar k dikhaya hai. Ab agar koi or show main koi winner phir say jeet kar aisa karay to sab log aap ki jeet zaroor yaad karain gay Q K is kaam ki buniyad aap nay shoro ki.
Is tarah deep say deep jalta jaye ga isha or jab tak log aap k shuro kiye huay is kaam ko agay barhain gay or jitnay logon ko is say relief milay ga un sab ki duain aap ko or aap k mama papa ko milti rahain gi.
Aap k mama papa bahut khush qismat hain jin ko aap k jaisi beti milli jo un k liye itnay dher saray logon ki duain ikhati karnay ki wajah bani
LOVE YOU SO MUCHHHHHHHHHHH
May 21st, 2010 at 10:43 am
i am very thank full to all of u for your comments and wishes and appricated me for my noble cause . i am very greatfull to all of u who pray for me and my family, may god bless u all